# Help For Your Child > Thoughts, stories and ideas. Public Ghost content for AI and LLM tooling. Use `/llms-full.txt` for consolidated page and post context. Append `.md` to any post or page URL to get the content in Markdown (for example, `/example-post.md`). ## Pages - [About this site](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/about.md) - Help For Your Child is an independent publication launched in June 2026 by Ed Hauber. If you subscribe today, you'll get full access to the website as well as email newsletters about new content when it's available. Your subscription makes this site possible, and allows Help For Your Child to conti… ## Posts - [What's the Long-Term Prognosis for Children with ADHD?](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/whats-the-long-term-prognosis-for-children-with-adhd.md) - Article at a Glance * Early diagnosis and consistent treatment dramatically change outcomes. Undiagnosed ADHD compounds academic struggle, peer rejection, and self-esteem damage, which becomes progressively harder to reverse over time. * Two-thirds of children with ADHD develop into adults with no… - [My Child Won't Sleep: The Complete Guide to Understanding and Solving Pediatric Sleep Problems](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/my-child-wont-sleep.md) - Article at a Glance * Sleep deprivation in children is far more common than most parents realize. Roughly 37 percent of young children and 77 percent of teenagers fall short of recommended sleep levels, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics. * Poor sleep doesn't just cause crankiness; it… - [ADHD versus Anxiety in Children: How to Tell the Difference (And Why It Matters)](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/adhd-versus-anxiety-in-children.md) - Article at a Glance * ADHD and anxiety share many of the same visible behaviors in children, including trouble focusing, restlessness, emotional outbursts, and task avoidance. * The core difference is what’s driving the behavior: ADHD is a brain-wiring issue, while anxiety is a worry issue. * ADHD… - [Adult ADHD in Women: What Nobody Told You—But Really Should Have](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/adult-adhd-in-women.md) - Article at a Glance 1. ADHD in women is largely invisible—it presents as internal restlessness, emotional overwhelm, and quiet disorganization rather than the hyperactivity associated with boys, causing most women to go undiagnosed for years or decades. 2. Women with ADHD develop ""masking"—exhaust… - [Is ADHD Treatment Effective? What the Numbers Mean.](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/is-adhd-treatment-effective-what-the-numbers-mean.md) - Table of Contents Show * %E2%80%9CSignificant Difference%E2%80%9D and Its Impact on ADHD Treatment * How Big Is the Improvement * ADHD Medications What the Evidence Shows * The Power of Exercise * Dietary Changes * Interventions with Poor Results * Depression Treatment Medication and Therapy * Comp… - [Treating ADHD in Young Children: A Practical Approach](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/treating-adhd-in-young-children-a-practical-approach.md) - Table of Contents Show * Structure in ADHD Treatment Why Its Critical * * What Structure Looks Like * Build Movement Into the Day * Behavioral Therapy in ADHD Treatment * * Parent Coaching You Are the Key * Medication and Its Role in Treatment of ADHD * * When Medication Becomes Important * An Indi… - [When Fear Meets Faith](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/when-fear-meets-faith.md) - Table of Contents Show * Utilizing the Comfort of Scripture * A Holistic View * Scripture Another Tool In the Toolbox Finding Courage, Peace, and Healing Through Scripture I am grateful, time and again, for moments that remind me how powerful our faith truly is in the mental health journey. While c… - [Pairing Children with Autism: Why Similarity Can Help Spark Connection](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/pairing-children-with-autism-why-similarity-can-help-spark-connection.md) - Learn why pairing children with autism based on shared interests and traits can help spark real social connection. Autism Centers of Pittsburgh can help. - [Masking in Autism: What Parents Should Know](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/masking-in-autism-what-parents-should-know.md) - Masking in autism means hiding autistic traits to fit in, and it takes a real toll. Learn what parents should watch for and how ACP can help. - [Making School Mornings Easier for Kids with ADHD and Autism](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/making-school-mornings-easier-for-kids-with-adhd-and-autism.md) - Table of Contents Show * The Morning Marathon * Why Mornings Are Harder * Creating Predictable Routines * The Power of Immediate Feedback * Movement as a Reset * Building Organizational Confidence * A Calmer Start to the Day The Morning Marathon If you’re the parent of a child with ADHD or autism,… - [Partnering with Schools—Finding the Right Support for Your Child](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/partnering-with-schools-finding-the-right-support-for-your-child.md) - Table of Contents Show * The Big Question IEP or 504 * Matching the Plan to Your Child * The Importance of the Team * When Plans Need Adjusting * Looking Beyond This School Year The Big Question: IEP or 504? Many parents wonder whether their child needs an IEP or a 504 Plan. Both provide legal supp… - [A Fresh Welcome Back to School](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/a-fresh-welcome-back-to-school.md) - Table of Contents Show * * * 1 Ease Into Routines Gently Please * 2 Structure with a Dash of Fun * 3 Organize Key Spaces at Home * 4 Talk Safety and Feelings * 5 Practical Prep and Health Planning * Final Thoughts and Hugs Hey friends! Can you even believe the lazy, carefree days of summer are wind… - [Autism: Back to School Made Easy (2025 repost)](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/autism-back-to-school-made-easy-2.md) - Back-to-school transitions are especially hard for autistic children. Preparation is key. Learn proven strategies, and how Autism Centers of Pittsburgh can help. - [Summer Fun with Your Autistic Child: The Complete Expanded Guide](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/summer-fun-with-your-child-with-autism-the-complete-expanded-guide.md) - Summer without school structure can be hard for autistic children. Here's what helps, and how Autism Centers of Pittsburgh supports families year-round. - [Why Parent Support Matters — And How I'm Here To Help](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/why-parent-support-matters-and-how-im-here-to-help.md) - Parent support is essential when raising a child with autism. Autism Centers of Pittsburgh partners with families, not just children, to drive real outcomes. - [Parenting with Presence: The Power of Getting Softer, Closer, and Calmer](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/parenting-with-presence-the-power-of-getting-softer-closer-and-calmer.md) - Table of Contents Show * Why Calm Gentle and Present Works * Get on Their Level%E2%80%94Literally and Emotionally * Invite Problem-Solving Together * In Practice Softer and Closer in Action If you’ve followed along with my blog, you may remember The Softer and Closer Approach—a heartfelt reminder t… - [When To Explain The Autism Diagnosis To The Child](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/when-to-explain-the-autism-diagnosis-to-a-child.md) - When should you tell your child about their autism diagnosis? Learn the clinical guidance, and how Autism Centers of Pittsburgh supports families through this conversation. - [Is It ADHD Or Just Kids Being Kids?](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/is-it-adhd-or-just-kids-being-kids.md) - Table of Contents Show * What Makes ADHD A %E2%80%9CDisorder%E2%80%9D * A Thorough ADHD Evaluation With Dr John Carosso * Treating ADHD Four Core Strategies * Final Thoughts * Ready to Take the First Step When is it typical childhood behavior, and when is it something to be concerned about? Many pa… - [Helping Teens with Autism and ADHD Transition into Adulthood](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/helping-teens-with-autism-and-adhd-transition-into-adulthood.md) - Teens with autism and ADHD face unique challenges transitioning to adulthood. Autism Centers of Pittsburgh helps families plan for college, careers, and independence. - [Understanding the Key Differences Between ABA and DTT](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/understanding-the-key-differences-between-aba-and-dtt.md) - ABA and DTT aren't the same thing. Learn the key differences, and how Autism Centers of Pittsburgh tailors treatment to each child's needs. - [Weighted Blankets and Vests: Are They Helpful for Children with Autism and ADHD?](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/weighted-blankets-and-vests-are-they-helpful-for-children-with-autism-and-adhd.md) - Do weighted blankets actually help kids with autism and ADHD? The evidence is nuanced. Learn what the research says and how ACP approaches sensory needs. - [Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT): Can It Help Your Child?](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/dialectical-behavioral-therapy-dbt-can-it-help-your-child.md) - Table of Contents Show * * What Is DBT Used For * Is DBT Effective * How Does DBT Differ From CBT * What Is Mindfulness In Therapy * Is DBT Suitable For Children * * Example Treating Self-Harm In Children With DBT * Conclusion and Reaching Out Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) is a specialized f… - [The Power of Pets for Kids with Autism, ADHD, Anxiety, and Depression](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/the-power-of-pets-for-kids-with-autism-adhd-anxiety-and-depression.md) - Pets can be powerful allies for kids with autism, ADHD, anxiety, and depression. Learn what the research shows and how ACP supports whole-child wellbeing. - [Which is More Effective in Child Discipline: Taking Away Privileges or Time-Out?](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/which-is-more-effective-in-child-discipline-taking-away-privileges-or-time-out.md) - Table of Contents Show * Method 1 Taking Away Privileges * * Discipline Method Pros * Cons * Method 2 A Time-Out * * Discipline Method Pros-2 * Cons-2 * Choosing the Right Approach * Final Thoughts and Which is Better Disciplining children is one of the most challenging yet essential aspects of par… - [Our Christmas Gift: The Power of Faith](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/our-christmas-gift-the-power-of-faith.md) - Table of Contents Show * Plus Bonus Christmas Day Post * * What Im Expected to Do%E2%80%A6 * Is There More * * Seems Only Fitting * Tap Into the Source of Faith * Christmas Bonus Post What Makes Christmas So Special * What Makes Christmas so Special * Basic Questions * * * Does God speak to us and… - [Raising Thankful Children: How to Encourage Gratitude](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/raising-thankful-children-how-to-encourage-gratitude.md) - Table of Contents Show * * Practice Gratitude Year-round * An All-Too-Common Problem%E2%80%A6 * Managing Entitlement * How Do We Help Them Practice Feeling Gratitude * * * 1 Give with a little more restraint * 2 Have kids work for what they want * 3 Show them what its like for those less fortunate… - [Sensory Sensitivities: My Child With Autism Won't Eat](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/sensory-sensitivities-my-child-with-autism-wont-eat.md) - When an autistic child won't eat, it's often a sensory issue, not defiance. Learn what's really happening and how Autism Centers of Pittsburgh can help. - [How to Help Children with ADHD Make Friends: Tips for Parents and Caregivers](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/how-to-help-children-with-adhd-make-friends-tips-for-parents-and-caregivers.md) - Table of Contents Show * * Understanding the Challenges * Strategies to Support Friendship Skills * Tips for Parents * When Should You Seek Additional Support For Your Child With ADHD * Bonus Post * * Tips for Supporting Social Skills During Recess * Conclusion Making friends can be challenging for… - [Helping Children with Autism Make Friends: 8 Practical Tips and Strategies](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/helping-children-with-autism-make-friends-8-social-strategies.md) - Helping autistic children make friends takes the right strategies. Learn practical approaches, and how Autism Centers of Pittsburgh supports social skill development. - [Social Anxiety vs. Shyness: Understanding the Differences](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/social-anxiety-vs-shyness-understanding-the-differences.md) - Table of Contents Show * What is Shyness * * Key Characteristics of Shyness * What is Social Anxiety * * Key Characteristics of Social Anxiety * Key Differences Between Social Anxiety and Shyness * How to Recognize Social Anxiety vs Shyness * * Tips for Managing Shyness and Social Anxiety * Some Fi… - [Panic Attacks! Managing Your Child's Anxiety](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/panic-attacks-managing-your-childs-anxiety.md) - Table of Contents Show * * What Really is a Panic Attack * How to Manage a Panic Attack * * One at a time * Next%E2%80%A6 the Most Beneficial Breathing Exercise * * Breathing Exercise for Panic Attacks * Whats next Thoughts * Im Here to Help What Really is a Panic Attack? We often think of a panic… - ["Autistic Savant Syndrome" and Its Impact on Treatment](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/autistic-savant-syndrome-and-its-impact-on-treatment.md) - Autistic savant syndrome affects a small percentage of people with autism. Learn what it really means, and why accurate evaluation still matters. - [Classroom Success and the Bermuda Triangle](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/classroom-success-and-the-bermuda-triangle.md) - Table of Contents Show * Picture a Triangle * The Triangle is Only One Tool * Wrap Up The Bermuda Triangle?? Okay, so what does Bermuda have to do with this post besides the fact that it’s a really cool place to go on vacation? Well, not much, and admittedly I included it just to get your attention… - [What's with the Increasing Autism Rates?](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/whats-with-the-increasing-autism-rates.md) - Why are autism rates increasing? The answer involves better diagnosis, expanded criteria, and more. Learn what the data shows and how ACP supports families. - [Are Autism and ADHD Related?](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/are-autism-and-adhd-related.md) - Autism and ADHD often co-occur and share overlapping features. Learn how they're related, and why accurate dual-diagnosis evaluation matters at ACP. - [Do Fidget Spinners Help With ADHD?](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/do-fidget-spinners-help-with-adhd.md) - Table of Contents Show * What Typically Works and What Doesnt Work * What about Movement Activities * What About More Subtle Movement Activities * So Does That Mean Fidget Spinners Work * * Before You Turn to Fidget Spinners There is always a search for remedies for symptoms of ADHD. Children with… - [When Does Autism Show Up, And Does It Get Worse?](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/when-does-autism-show-up-and-other-common-autism-questions.md) - When does autism appear, and does it get worse over time? Get clear answers, and learn how early evaluation at Autism Centers of Pittsburgh makes a difference. - [Does Screen Time Cause ADHD?](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/does-screen-time-cause-adhd.md) - Table of Contents Show * * Cause and Effect or Just a Connection * What Does the Research Have to Say * Think of it This Way%E2%80%A6 * * Other Symptoms of Too Much Screen Time * Are There Any Positives * * Is Too Much Screen Time the New Too Much TV * Hope That Helps Cause and Effect, or Just a Co… - [What is Good Therapy for Your Child?](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/what-is-good-therapy-for-your-child.md) - Table of Contents Show * All too Often%E2%80%A6 * Lets Talk About the %E2%80%98Structure of Therapy * What Else Happens All Too Often * Who is the Client * Working With the Whole Unit * Another Pitfall to Successful Therapy * Something Else You Should Expect * When Considering Therapy for Your Chil… - [Why Is It Important To Teach Our Kids about Independence Day?](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/why-is-it-important-to-teach-our-kids-about-independence-day.md) - Table of Contents Show * * What Are We Celebrating on %E2%80%9CThe Fourth%E2%80%9D Also Known as %E2%80%9CIndependence Day%E2%80%9D * Why is This Important For Our Kids * * * Liberty and Responsibility * Independence as a Virtue Individualism and Self-Determination * * That We Can Continue to Grow… - [Summer Break is Fast Approaching](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/summer-break-is-fast-approaching.md) - Table of Contents Show * For All the Planners * * Feeling Creative * Not Everything Has to Be %E2%80%9CFun%E2%80%9D Over Summer Break * * Childcare Babysitting and Summer Camps * Keeping a Daily Routine * * As the Summer Winds Down A version of this post appeared in the Spring of 2021. It’s Spring,… - [Strategies To Address School Refusal](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/how-we-treat-series-school-refusal-2024-update.md) - Table of Contents Show * * Your Child Wont Go to School * Physical Complaints * What Causes School Refusal * What To Do * * What If Your Child is Too Big To Carry Them Into School * Can Counseling Help School Refusal * * What About In-Home Services * Should You Try Home or Cyber Schooling * When to… - [Easter And The Power of Hope](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/easter-and-the-power-of-hope-repost.md) - Table of Contents Show * The Vital Nature of Hope * Hope and Resilience * Hope and Managing Challenges * Easter and Hope * Tap Into This Hope Today's post was shared previously but serves as a reminder of how important hope is for all children, especially children and families who struggle with beh… - [The Facts and Fallacies of ADHD](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/the-facts-and-fallacies-of-adhd.md) - Table of Contents Show * What Are the Primary Symptoms of ADHD * Is It Just An Excuse * Is Using Medication to Treat ADDADHD Safe * The Fallacy of %22Just Discipline%22 for ADDADHD * Feedback From Teachers * Is There An ADHD Test * Do They Grow Out of It * What Can Happen if ADDADHD is Not Treated… - [Our Christmas Gift: The Wonderful Counselor; Plus Bonus Christmas Day Post!](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/our-christmas-gift-the-wonderful-counselor-12-23-16.md) - Table of Contents Show * * What Im Expected to Do%E2%80%A6 * Is There More * * Seems Only Fitting * Tap Into the Source of Faith * Christmas Bonus Post What Makes Christmas so Special * What Makes Christmas so Special * Basic Questions * * * Does God speak to us and in what ways * Scripture that sp… - [Managing the Holiday Season](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/managing-the-holiday-season-2.md) - Table of Contents Show * Good Tidings%E2%80%A6 * * But * Father and mother knows best * Shopping * Keeping the schedule * Gifts and Toys * Some Other Tips * Dont Miss the Season As part of our December holiday tradition, we are sharing an older post with lots of excellent advice on how to make the… - [How To Plan Successful Holiday Outings](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/how-to-plan-successful-holiday-outings.md) - Table of Contents Show * 7 Tips for Successful Outings * * * 1 Start Small * 2 Agree on %E2%80%98Rules Before Leaving * 3 Make the Schedule Clear * 4 Provide Simple Directions on How to Behave Well * 5 Get Your Child Involved * 6 Steer Clear of Conflicts By Monitoring Your Kiddos %22Social Battery%… - [Thanksgiving Day Special: How to Raise Thankful Kids](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/thanksgiving-day-special-how-to-raise-thankful-kids-2.md) - Table of Contents Show * * * Thanksgiving is Extra Special * How Do We Help Kids Practice Being Thankful Year-round * * An All Too Common Problem%E2%80%A6 * The Ironic Twist * * * What is The Effect * How Do We Promote Gratitude and Help Them Practice Being Thankful * * * * 1 Go easy on the giving… - [The Formula for Clear and Effective Treatment Plans: Using Baselines and Objectives](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/the-formula-for-clear-and-effective-treatment-plans-using-baselines-and-objectives.md) - Table of Contents Show * Where It All Starts%E2%80%A6 * What To Be Looking For To Create An Effective Treatment Plan * * * Goals vs Objectives * So whats the Formula * * * Step 1 Target the Issues * Step 2 Determining Vague vs Measurable Behaviors * Step 3 Quantifying Behavior * Frequency * Rate *… - [Seven Tips For Making A Sticker Chart Work](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/sticker-chart-tips-for-parents-and-kids.md) - Table of Contents Show * Tips For Success With a Sticker Chart * What About Older Kids * In Summary%E2%80%A6 Sticker charts can be an invaluable resource. Kids love to get stickers, which are inexpensive, highly motivating, and can be used numerous times throughout the day or week. From my professi… - [Getting Back In The Swing Of The School Routine](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/getting-back-in-the-swing-of-the-back-to-school-routine.md) - Table of Contents Show * Summer Break Is Almost Over * Summer vs School Routine * * What To Do * 9 Above all use picture schedules and social stories to prepare for the first day * School Routine Success Building The Mindset * God bless and enjoy the rest of the summer Summer Break Is Almost Over A… - [Managing Transitions Between Activities](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/managing-activity-transitions.md) - Table of Contents Show * * The Challenge Of Getting Your Child To Move Between Activities And Tasks * Why Are These Transitions A Problem * What To Do * * Phase 1 Activity Transition Preparation * Phase 2 The Move * * * Enlist Their Help * Phase 3 After The Activity Transition * Helping Older Child… - [Mission: Fatherhood! A Father's Day Letter For Dad](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/mission-fatherhood-a-fathers-day-letter-to-dad.md) - Table of Contents Show * * First lets hear it for Moms * * The Purpose of This Post A Shout-out For Dad * Dear Dads * * What if You Are a Dad Who Dont Live in The Same Home as Your Child * The Role of A Dad In A Daughters Life * Your Mission As A Dad Is More Important Than That Of A CEO Manager Or… - [How We Treat Series: How Community Psychiatric Centers Treat Adults with Autism](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/how-community-psychiatric-centers-treat-adults-with-autism.md) - Adults with autism deserve specialized care. Learn how Autism Centers of Pittsburgh evaluates and treats adults on the spectrum, including late-diagnosed individuals. - [How Community Psychiatric Centers Treats those with Intellectual Disability Disorder](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/how-community-psychiatric-centers-treats-those-with-intellectual-disability-disorder-or-idd.md) - Table of Contents Show * * What is Intellectual Disability Disorder IDD * * IDD Severity Levels And Adaptive Skills * What Causes IDD * Comorbidities * * How Do We Treat Those With Intellectual Disabilities * Co-occurring Mental Health Issues And Promoting Family Harmony * How to get started * * Th… - [Would You Rescue Your Spouse Before Your Kids?](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/would-you-rescue-your-spouse-before-your-kids-valentines-2023.md) - Table of Contents Show * Heres a Story For You * * The Kids Pretty Wise * * Single Parent * Bottom Line * * Do You Need Some Help I originally published this post in late 2014; it's one of my favorites and I hope one of yours. I'm reminded daily of the power of family on a child's life, especially… - [The Formula for Successful Therapy](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/the-formula-for-successful-therapy.md) - Table of Contents Show * When Your Child is Involved in Therapy * Different Approaches to Therapy * The Steps of The Formula * * Step One Therapy Detective * Step Two Whats the Protocol to Treat the Problem * Step Three Rate the Three Primary Factors * Lets Look at Each Factor * The Rating Process… - [Have You Seen All Our Parent Resources?](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/have-you-seen-all-our-parent-resources.md) - Table of Contents Show * The Parent Resources Page * My Book Page * The Focused Articles * eBooks Page * Lets Get Social * Other Important Resources This website functions as a sort of library for all the videos, articles, Quick-Reference Guides, and in-depth eBooks that I have created and collecte… - [How We Treat Series: School Refusal](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/how-we-treat-series-school-refusal.md) - Table of Contents Show * * Your Child Wont Go to School * Physical Complaints * What Causes School Refusal * What To Do * * What If Your Child is Too Big To Carry Them Into School * Can Counseling Help School-Refusal * * What About In Home Services * Should You Try Home or Cyber Schooling * When to… - [Our Christmas Gift: The Wonderful Counselor](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/the-importance-of-faith-in-childhood-challenges.md) - Table of Contents Show * * What Im Expected to Do%E2%80%A6 * Is There More * * Seems Only Fitting * Tap Into the Source of Faith Sharing this post is one of my favorite traditions. This Christmas blog post was first put up on HelpForYourChild.com back in 2012. It has been helping families recognize… - [Dr. John Carosso's eBook — How We Treat Series: Depression and Anxiety, Autism, ADHD, and Emotional Outbursts](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/dr-john-carossos-ebook-how-we-treat-series-depression-and-anxiety-autism-adhd-and-emotional-outbursts.md) - Dr. John Carosso's How We Treat eBook covers autism, ADHD, anxiety, and more. For current clinical resources and services, visit Autism Centers of Pittsburgh. - [Raising Thankful Children](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/raising-thankful-children.md) - Table of Contents Show * * Practice Being Thankful Year-round * An All-Too-Common Problem%E2%80%A6 * Managing Entitlement * How Do We Help Them Practice Being Thankful * * * 1 Give with a little more restraint * 2 Have kids work for what they want * 3 Show them what its like for those less fortunat… - [How Do You Plan Successful Holiday Outings?](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/how-do-you-plan-successful-holiday-outings.md) - Table of Contents Show * 7 Tips for Successful Outings * * * 1 Start Small * 2 Agree on %E2%80%98Rules Before Leaving * 3 Make the Schedule Clear * 4 Provide Simple Directions on How to Behave Well * 5 Get Your Child Involved * 6 Steer Clear of Conflicts * 7 The Best-Laid Plans%E2%80%A6 * Reducing… - [How We Treat Your Child’s Emotional Outbursts](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/how-we-treat-your-childs-emotional-outbursts.md) - Table of Contents Show * * What Causes Emotional Oversensitivity Overreactions and Outbursts * * Genetic Underpinning * A Genuine Underlying Mood disorder * An Anxiety Disorder * An Experience of Trauma * The Autism Spectrum * Okay So What Do You Do About Outbursts * 1 Remain Calm * 2 Give Validati… - [Ready or Not, Summer Break is Coming!](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/ready-or-not-summer-break-is-coming.md) - Table of Contents Show * * Summer Break is Fast Approaching * For All the Planners * * Feeling Creative * Not Everything Has to Be %E2%80%9CFun%E2%80%9D Over Summer Break * * Childcare Babysitting and Summer Camps * Keeping a Daily Routine * * As the Summer Winds Down A version of this post appeare… - [How We Treat ADHD](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/how-we-treat-adhd.md) - Table of Contents Show * What is ADHD * What Is The Cause Of ADHD * What Are The Types And Signs Of ADHD * * * Signs of Inattention Type ADHD Six or more * Signs of Hyperactivity and Impulsivity Type ADHD Six or more * How Do We Assess For ADHD * Is There a %E2%80%98Test For ADHD * Okay So Lets Get… - [Easter And The Power of Hope](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/easter-and-the-power-of-hope.md) - Table of Contents Show * The Vital Nature of Hope * Hope and Resilience * Hope and Managing Challenges * Easter and Hope * Tap Into This Hope The Vital Nature of Hope “Hope is the thing with feathers that perches in the soul and sings the tune without the words and never stops at all”. - Emily Dick… - [How We Treat Autism](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/how-we-treat-autism.md) - Autism treatment requires individualized clinical care. Learn how Autism Centers of Pittsburgh approaches evaluation and treatment, and how to get started. - [How to Treat Your Child’s Depression & Anxiety](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/how-to-treat-your-childs-depression-and-anxiety.md) - Table of Contents Show * What Causes Depression and Anxiety * Okay So What Are the Best Treatment Strategies for Depression and Anxiety * * What a Person is Thinking * What a Person is Doing * Exercise and Nutrition * How We Breathe * Validation * Connection With God * Medication * * And Thats a Wr… - [The Behavioral Therapist Detective: Here’s How We Solve the Case](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/the-behavioral-therapist-detective-heres-how-we-solve-the-case.md) - Table of Contents Show * * How It Starts * To Help We Become Detectives * * What Do We Need to Know * As With Any Good Detective We Need to Determine %E2%80%98Why * * How or Whats Been Tried to Alleviate the Behavior * The Behavioral Therapists Role * Diagnosis Plays a Part * * * Experimentation *… - [The Christmas Gift of Faith: What Role Does it Play?](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/the-christmas-gift-of-faith-what-role-does-it-play.md) - Table of Contents Show * * * What Im Expected to Do%E2%80%A6 * Is There More * Seems Only Fitting * * Tap Into the Source of Faith * * This Christmas may your family be blessed and may you share your Faith with your kiddos to celebrate the season Sharing this post is one of my favorite traditions.… - [Merry and Bright: How to Handle Your Child’s Behavior On Holiday Outings](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/merry-and-bright-how-to-handle-your-childs-behavior-on-holiday-outings.md) - Table of Contents Show * Some Tips for Successful Holiday Outings * * * 1 Start Small * 2 Agree on %E2%80%98Rules Before Leaving * 3 Make the Schedule Clear * 4 Provide Simple Direction on How to Behave Well * 5 Get Your Child Involved * 6 Avoid a Meltdown * 7 Prepare Plan Practice * Reducing Overs… - [Video: Preparing Your Child for the Holidays](https://blog.helpforyourchild.com/video-preparing-your-child-for-christmas-and-the-holidays-this-season.md) - The holidays are a wonderful time of year. 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